You should try to love your neighbor.
Our perception of reality is completely self-serving, so even if it might appear as if we hate ourselves, it is an illusion covering the fact that we actually love ourselves more than anyone else.
By nature, we constantly prioritize self-benefit over benefiting others and nature, and by definition such a quality is called “egoism” or “self-love.”
Therefore, in the same way that we love ourselves at every moment, we should shift our focus onto loving others. When we attain that ability, we reach the state of “love your neighbor as yourself.”
Based on the Daily Kabbalah Lesson with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman on September 11, 2023. Written/edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.